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Mom's get in touch with a friend . Enjoy your me time.

Tired, sleepy, messy hair and loads of household work to do in your bucket list.
The two little feet which entered your life shifted your attention span to so many things instead
of career, your looks, what you want to wear or what your mood is today.

Moving away to a different city without any job in hand after marriage is always difficult, because
you leave your family, your job, your comfort zone which was there for almost 28 years
and most importantly your best friend.

A person who knows you as she knows her back of her hand.
The look on your face says it all to her, the eye speaking conversion, the horrible jokes,
pulling each other's leg and what not.

The wish of bucket list which we share, the stargazing, our silent conversion, being comfortable with just the silence around us, the moon watching, long walks you miss everything in this new city.
Still, you maintain the long-distance relationship, you still chat and miss each other for all the good things and bad experiences you get in your life.

Though things change motherhood takes away that time as your focus shifts too so many different things. 
You are roaming around doing all your chores and the only thing in your head is sleep.
Your long chats shift to single word conversion because you know your friend is going to understand it all.

There are times you just get an I miss you or you just send I miss you and those three words
mean so much.
Those three words hold up a whole conversion even without saying a single word.
You do make new friends around though the place which your bestie has created always stays there
though vacant because you can’t meet each other every day.

Your life goes on, you get busy while raising your toddler, your social life comes to null.
You do scroll in parks you do get your “Me Time”. It doesn’t match your time with your friend.
Your daily conversion or the hourly conversion has turned to two days messages,
to weekly conversion and then to monthly though the bond is still the same.

That's the bond which no amount of distance can break.
Your friend enters motherhood and now she is occupied with all the stuff you were once occupied
and the same things go on.
We are still a phone call away, we still 2 AM friends and us still the same inseparable ones.
This friendship day to all the mothers out there take out one minute in your day, contact, call, message or just speak to your old friend, bestie who knew you like their own.
You were sisters from another mother or you were just soul friends/mates and inseparable
at one point in life or was always your go-to person for everything.
Trust me when I say you will feel the instant connection, the tears of happiness or just your
twinkling eyes would be a moment you will always want to capture in your mind.
Send your toddlers pictures, show them how they are growing, show the resemblance in both of you.
Share your moments or just send a voice message because the calls are going to be missed and they will be occupied with lots of stuff. Leave just a message stating whatever is in your mind.
Remember your kid is going to look at you and learn to set an example of friendship.
So this friendship day let cherish your old bond and goes through your old memories
and just enjoys your motherhood.

Happy mothers always have happy kids. Happy Parenting. Happy Friendship Day to you all.

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