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He Cried and I was smiling

Yes! The day has arrived; The wait is over.
The 9 month of patience, wait, sleepless twist and turns are going to be awarded.
👉  The strecher passes and the operation theatre is ready.
👉 You are being egarly waited by all your loving family members.
👉 The count down has begin.
👉 Here you are with a small little cry. 
👉 Yes ! You are here in this world to become our whole world.
👉 You were crying and I was smiling.
👉 I was in pain, still I was smiling and you were crying.
👉 The pain of the stitches were unbearable to go through, still I was smiling forgetting everything.
👉 I was unable to walk, yet I was smiling.
👉  I couldn't cough, sneeze, move around; still I was smiling and you were crying.
👉 I was in so much pain, could not move or even use the toilet alone. Yet here I was touching your small little fingers, watching your yawn.I was still smiling.
Motherhood is unending love which you give and get abdunce in back.
With a hug, a toothless smile or a toothless smile.
Womens day made me realise how blessed I was to have this little human constantly moving around me who calls me Muma.
How blessed I was to be blessed with womanhood which was blessed as motherhood.
All the new mother's out there enjoy, cherish the little moments these little bundle of joy are giving you.
I know it gets tuff, I know the nights are too long, I know the cries, the continuous fedding makes you tired and your back aches.
Trust me you would feel on their 1st birthday they have grownup so fast.
Soon they would be independent, they won't need you for anything.
 Happy women's day.
Happy motherhood & parenting!

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